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We Get, and Give, Lots of Bad Advice. Here’s How to Stop.

https://www.nytimes.com/2020/04/02/smarter-living/how-to-give-better-advice.html

 

We Get, and Give, Lots of Bad Advice. Here’s How to Stop.

One of the most effective ways to get better advice is to give it.

www.nytimes.com

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